Winter Style // the fake glasses

In a previous post I confessed my love for fake, nerdy glasses. I have now finally found my true love. These glasses are quite big, I admit, but I like them a lot. They give your outfit just that little extra touch.

Also, this jumper is hands down the most confortable and warm thing I have ever owned. I love to wear it with a skirt, like I did over here, or with a simple pair of jeans. I don’t know, it looks kinda cool, I guess.

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Toodlepip! xx


Jumper: & Other Stories – Skirt: The Sting – Shoes: Alpe – Glasses: H&M

How To Not Bake Christmas Tree Brownies

Guys… I tried. I really tried. But I failed. Miserably..

I wanted to make these really cute brownies shaped like a Christmas tree, decorated with some white chocolate and sprinkles. I really wanted this to be a high quality, good looking and proffesional post. That didn’t happen. Apparantly, you’re not supposed to put the brownie mix in a cake tray. It won’t come out after baking resulting in your kitchen being covered in brownie crumbs while you do an attempt at getting your brownie safely out of the tray. Also, you can’t colour melted chocolate with food colouring. It turns into this pulpy stuff. I don’t know why, ask the science side of Tumblr. Anyway, I failed. My brownies failed. But I thought you might enjoy to laugh at my misery so here it is anyway.

I started off okay. I had a box of brownie powder stuff and all I needed to do was add water and some butter. That was all. I thought I could do that. I mixed the ingedrients together and it looked alright. I still had hope that this was going to be a good blogmas day.

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I thought it would be better not to use the tray from the box because it was fairly small. I wanted a bigger tray. That way I could get more Christmas trees out of it. Reasonable thinking, right? NO. Always use the tray given in the box. It will go wrong if you don’t. Here is proof.

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I tried to stay positive. Perhaps I could still get some Christmas trees out of it. ‘It’s fine’ I told myself. ‘Don’t panic.’ So I managed to get 4 somewhat Christmas tree looking shapes out of the brownie crumbs. I had regained some hope. Little did I know, that bit of hope would very soon be lost again.

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That is when I started melting the chocolate. It all went okay at first. I melted nicely. But then I added the food colouring. The chocolate somehow ended up looking like poop. This is where I realized; maybe I should give up.

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But then, all of a sudden a thought came to me: perhaps I could cover the whole thing in chocolate, you won’t even notice the poopy consistency! Let me tell you, kids; it did not work.

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This is when I actually gave up. I decided to lie down in the kitchen floor for a minute. Then, while lying on the floor, I ate some of the remaining brownie crumbs. Then I went upstairs and wrote this post. Also, my internet is currently gone. I’m writing this without any wifi. I hope I will be able to fix it today. Otherwise that would be fail number three of the day. (I also failed my math exam today, that was the first fail.)

Anyway. I hope you either laughed at my failure here or perhaps you now know what not to do when baking brownies. I will see you tomorrow.

Toodlepip! xx

The Christmas Tag

I thought it would be appropriate to do the Christmas tag today. After all, I haven’t written a Christmassy post in a while.

1. What is your favorite Christmas film?

Elf. For sure. It’s kind of funny and I think it has a good message; never let go of the kid inside of you.

2. Have you ever had a White Christmas?

Not that I can remember. All Holland has is rainy Christmasses. Although, I once spent a Christmas in Austria and we had snow there so I guess that counts.

3. Where do you usually spend your holiday?

At home most of the time. Although for the past two years we haven’t. I prefer to be at home though.

4. What is your favorite Christmas song?

Fool’s Holiday by All Time Low cause I love All Time Low. Shake Up Christmas by Train cause it reminds me of a cringy but fun video I once made with some Youtube friends. Christmas (Baby Please Come Home) by Michael Buble, cause me and my friend always sing it during class. That makes me smile somtimes. I like to smile.

5. Do you open any presents on Christmas Eve?

No. I am Dutch so we open presents on the 5th of December.

6. Can you name all of Santa’s reindeer?

No. I am Dutch so we don’t really have that whole Santa tradition here. I know Rudolph though.

7. What holiday traditions are you looking forward to most this year?

Drinking hot chocolate with whipped cream, while wearing my Christmas jumper, while watching a cheesy tv show about loved ones seeing each other again after a long time on Christmas.

8. Is your Christmas tree real or fake?

Real. Always.

9. What is your all-time favorite holiday food/sweet treat?

I don’t really know to be honest. Does hot chocolate with whipped cream and marshmallows count?

10. Be honest: do you like giving gifts or receiving gifts better?

Both. I like receiving for all the obvious reasons and I like giving because I really like putting effort into buying and wrapping the presents. If only I had some more money to spend..

11. What would be your dream place to visit for the holiday season?

New York and London. I have been to both places during Christmas time and I have never felt more at home. It was magical.

12. Are you a pro-present wrapper, or do you fail miserably?

I fail miserably, however I enjoy it anyway.

13. Most memorable Holiday moment?

Spending my Christmas in New York and London. Like I already said; it was magical.

14. What made you realize the truth about Santa?

I’m going to change this question into: What made you realize the truth about Sinterklaas? Cause that’s what we call the man here. Some kid in my class spoiled it for me when I was 9. He had a full argumentation prepared to ruin it for everyone. Thanks for that, mate.

15. Do you make New Years resolutions? Do you stick to them?

Yes I make them. I really try.

16. What makes the holidays special for you?

As sad as it sounds, the holidays are not that special to me. I think I like the idea of Christmas more than the actual thing. Perhaps it’s just my family that doesn’t really celebrate it that much. Although, I like the idea that we celebrate the birth of Jesus, cause I think Jesus is kinda cool.

Do not hesitate to answer some of these question (or all if you want) down below. I would love to know your answers.

I will see you tomorrow.

Toodlepip! xx

 

How I Style; A Scrunchie

I don’t know what it is about scrunchies, but for me they just scream Christmas. Maybe it’s the burgendy red colour, maybe it’s the shiny finish or maybe it’s just me. However, scrunchies can be tricky to wear. I have had them laying around my room for quite some time now, but I never really wore them as much, mainly because I had no idea how to. But recently I have found some pretty cute hairstyles that I feel work perfectly with a scrunchie.

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The Low Pony: this one is very basic but I like it a lot. It’s just so easy to throw your hair into a low ponytail. If you want to you can mess it up a little bit by pulling out some bits of hair around your face. And you’re done really!

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The 90’s Pony: this one has to be my favourite because it just screams 90’s. All you want to do is throw your hair up into a high ponytail. After that, you want to go ahead and divide your tail by using some elastics. I like to make the tail appear fuller by pulling at the hair inbetween the elastics. Feel free to make it as big or small as you like. Again, I like to make it a little bit messier by pulling out some strands around my face.

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The Good Ol’ Messy Bun: there are so many different ways to make a messy bun and everyone’s hair works differently. That is why it is kind of hard for me to explain to you how to make a messy bun. But what I like to do and what tends to work for me is to gather all of my hair up on top of my head, take my scrunchie and pull my hair through like I would for a ponytail. However, I am not pulling it through all the way! I stop halfway and wrap my scrunchie around one more time to secure the bun. Remember: the messier, the better!

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The Side Ponytail: bringing back the 80’s! All you do for this hair style is gathering all your hair together on the side of your head and make a ponytail. Very easy! You can bring this one as high up as you like and as far to the side as you like! It’s all up to you!

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Half Up Half Down: my go to hairstyle. Same technique as you would use for a regular ponytail, but only with less hair. You can use as little or as much hair for this one as you like. It’s totally up to you! Do whatever you like best!

Which one of these did you like best? Let me know in the comments!

I will see you tomorrow!

Toodlepip! xx

All About My Ukulele

Something I have fallen in love with over the past few months is my ukulele. I sometimes get questions from people online about my ukulele so I thought I could write a whole post on it today. Do know, I am not a proffesional nor do I know a lot about ukuleles. In fact, I hardly know anything. All I can tell you is how I have experienced learning the ukulele so far.

Why did I choose to play the ukulele?

I think the ukulele is not an instrument you immediately think of when you are picking an instrument to learn. However, if it’s your first ever instrument; a ukulele is a nice start. For quite some time I had the thought of wanting to play an intrument. However, I have always had the guitar in mind. Two songs that really encouraged me to pick up an instrument were Missing You by All Time Low and The Strays by Sleeping With Sirens. Both two of my favourite bands, both really great and meaningful songs. However, I never thought I would be good enough to be able to play a guitar. At this point I had discovered a few people on Youtube who played the ukulele and that gave some ideas. I thought perhaps the fact that a ukulele is a lot smaller than a guitar meant that it was also a lot easier to play and cheaper to buy. So I did.

Which ukulele do I have?

I have the Diamond Head DU-250 which is a soprano ukulele. There are four main ukulele sizes and mine is the smallest. Which one to get really depends on what you want to do with your ukulele. If you are anything like me and you had no idea there were different sizes you just want ‘that one you see everyone on Youtube play’, you probably mean a soprano or a concert ukulele. The concert one is a little bigger and has a harder sound to it. I advise you to do think about what you really want to do with your ukulele once you have it and try and find the right one for it. Prise wise, ukuleles can differ a lot. You have very cheap ones and very expensive ones. If you are just starting out, I would advice you not to but an expensive one right away. Mine was around 40 euros and honestly, I feel like it sounds just as good as expansive ones. Perhaps I have to do some more tuning but that’s okay for me.

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Is it difficult to learn how to play a ukulele?

When I first started playing my ukulele, it was the hardest freaking thing ever. I struggled a lot. But then I remembered something. I have this 5 Seconds Of Summer DVD in which Michael, my favourite member said: ”I almost gave up on playing the guitar cause it was so hard to do. I am glad I didn’t give up.” This is something that always motivates me whenever I struggle to play. Even famous guitarists struggle. Just don’t give up. Keep practising. Keep getting better. I have to say, I still struggle. But I keep practising everyday and I keep getting better everyday. However, to answer this question: No, the ukulele is in fact not a difficult instrument to play. It just takes some getting used to. Fairly quickly I taught myself a few basic chords and strumming patterns and with that I am able to play so many different songs. If you are new to playing an instrument, a ukulele is a great start.

Why do I enjoy playing the ukulele so much?

I like playing the ukulele. However, the thing that made me love it was Twenty One Pilots. As you may know, Tyler also plays the ukulele. Seeing him play it and hearing his songs motivated me a lot to improve. In all honesty, if it weren’t for Twenty One Pilots, I would have probably already gotten bored of playing. Not only do they have a lot of great songs to play on the ukulele, Tyler also taught me something important. I am a very emotional person. That is just a fact. Whenever I feel any negative energy inside me, whenever I feel a negative emotion, I can go and use that negativity to do something negative. That is and always will be an option. But how about we take that energy, that focus, and aim it at something else. Something more positive. Take that energy you have and use it to create. I use my ukulele to aim my emotions on something positive instead of negative. That is what I love about playing.

How do I learn to play new songs?

I am a self taught ukulele player. I have never had any lessons nor do I know how to read music notes. Here are some places I like to go to learn new songs:

  • www.ukutabs.com On this website you will find ukulele chords to so many songs. You can also transpose them to make them easier if you need to. It’s easy to use and understand so you can get started right away.
  • The Ukulele Teacher Probably the best ukulele channel on Youtube. The ukulele teacher has taught me most I know about playing the ukulele. He explains chords, strumming patterns, tuning and even more.
  • Matthew Hedges A slightly smaller channel and not just ukulele tutorials, however very useful to me sometimes. Like me, Matthew is a massive Twenty One Pilots fan so he has some tutorials on that. Watching his, or anyone’s covers can be very instructive too. It might give you some ideas to play and if you look closely, you might even be able to see which chords to play.
  • Isabelle Hyde  She is probaby one of my favourite people ever. She is so talented and once again, a Twenty One Pilots fan, like me. So most of her covers are Twenty One Pilots songs. She has, in my opinion, a very creative way of playing songs. She uses strumming patterns you wouldn’t think of right away. That is why I love watching her covers to get some inspiration and ideas to play songs myself.

Some tips on how to play the ukulele.

The most important thing before you start playing is tuning your ukulele. I struggled a lot with this. I find it very hard to hear when exactly my ukulele is tuned in the right way. I would advise you to either get a tuning app or an actual ukulele tuner. This has helped me a lot. Tuning is obvioulsy done with the tuning keys. The basic way of tuning is G-C-E-A. Meaning that if you hold your ukulele, the string closest to your face is G, the next one C, and so on.

When you are just starting out, the basic chords to learn are F, G, Am and C. These are, first of all, very easy to play and, second of all, very common. You can play so many songs with just these four chords so make sure you know them.

Besides chords, strumming pattern is also important. It’s the thing you do with your other hand basically. You will see that strumming patterns often look something like this: dddudu. D = strum down. U = strum up. Some basic strumming patterns that you can use for most songs are: DDUUDU & DDUDUDU. I started strumming with a guitar pick. For me this was easier. Especially very quick strumming patters are easier with a guitar pick. However, at the moment I prefer to use my thumb to play. It gives a softer sound which I like more but the way you like to strum is totally up to you.

All of these tips are nice. However, there is one thing that to me, is the most important thing to know. Whatever instrument it is you play, know that there is no wrong or right way to play it. Music is self expression so whatever it is you need to be able to express yourself, do it. Don’t let anyone tell you, not even your favourite band member or your own mind, that what you are doing is wrong. The only way to know if you are playing your instrument right is by asking yourself the question: do I truly enjoy playing? If your answer is yes than you are doing it right!

I hope this post was somewhat helful and that I answered at least some of your questions. If you still have questions, don’t hesitate to leave a comment down below! You can also tweet me, or snap me, or ask me on Instagram if you like.

I will see you tomorrow!

Toodlepip!

My Insta Feed

I am failing at Blogmas…. Okay, here is the plan, I am going to upload two posts today and from now on Blogmas is not going to fail anymore. I promise! Yesterday was just the most stressful and busy day. I am in the middle of a finals week, forgive me.

Anyway.. I often see bloggers upload posts about their instagram feed. In all honesty, I don’t really know what they do with it, but I quite like looking at people’s feed so I thought, perhaps you’d like it too. That is why today I wanted to talk you guys through some of my favourite pictures on my Instagram. (you can obviously also follow me on Instagram. Click here, my friend)

I have had this period where I was obsessed with making my feed match perfectly. It still matches, somewhat, but I am focussing less on it to be honest. I feel like it limits my uploads a lot so I am trying to be less picky about my instagram theme and just upload whatever I want to upload.

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First picture I want to talk about is the one with the tea lights. Not too long ago I wrote a little poem here on my blog. (which you can read here if you haven’t already) And it was basically about people who cannot enjoy Christmas due to mental illness or any other reason. I think this is something we don’t think about enough. Christmas is always seen as ‘the most wonderful time of the year’, but just imagine; is it still wonderful if you would not have a family to go to at Christmas? Is it still wonderful if you see everyone smiling and everyone laughing, while you are dealing with depression? Is it still wonderful if you do not have the money to celebrate it in the way you’d want to? Is it still wonderful if you are sitting in front of a huge Christmas dinner while dealing with an eating disorder? I have only named a few examples now but I feel like people often don’t realise this sort of stuff. Mental illnesses, physical illnesses or whatever it is some people are dealing with;  don’t take a break from tormenting you. It stays with you, even during what is supposed to be ‘the most wonderful time of the year’. Like I said in the caption of this post: If you are celebrating Christmas this year with a genuine smile on your face; know that you are very lucky to be in that position. If you’re not; know that you are not alone and it’s worth it to stay alive and keep trying. There is hope and light for you too.

Another post I would like to talk a little bit about is the Starbucks one. I know, how basic of me, right? I was just in an incredibly good mood that day. I don’t know if this is a thing that happens all over the world, but here in Holland, if you are in the last year of high school, you can get a day off of school to go check out a university of your choice. This is basically meant for the people who are almost sure of what want to do after high school, but just to be 100% sure, you can go to the university you want to go to and see if you really like it. You get to go to classes and you get to see the common room of the study direction you want to go in. I don’t know what it was, but for some reason I liked it so much. The people were so kind. They truly seemed like the people I would hang out with. It just made me really happy to see that perhaps I had found a place that was right for me.

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First picture I want to talk about of this collection is the upper left one. What is that? You might think. Well, my friend, let me explain. I was at a local Christmas market and all of a sudden, I saw the cutest dog in the world. I just really love dogs okay, don’t judge me! Anyway, I wanted to take a picture of it but my heart just couldn’t handle its cuteness. I can feel your judgement through the screen, but I swear, it was the cutest dog I had ever seen. It was a black pug puppy wearing a red Christmas jumper. You understand me now?

The one next to that is a bit of weird one too. It’s finals week. We all know what that means: procrastination. My friend sent me a picture of her arm on which she had drawn some of Tyler’s tattoo’s. This picture is simply me joining her by drawing on one of Josh’s tattoos. Gotta love finalsweek.

Next up is the middle picture on the bottom. If you have been following my blogmas this year, you have already seen this picture however, I decided to use #myFBRstyle on instagram. People who use this hashtag have a chance of being featured on the official Fueled By Ramen Instagram. (the record label of too many really cool bands) And guess what? I am probably going to get featured!! (well, they asked me of they could use my picture and I said yes so..) Anyway.. I thought this was kinda cool so I wanted to share it with y’all.

Lastly; ‘we’re broken people’; a lyric from a song called Screen. This lyric means the absolute world to me. For me it means that it is okay to be broken, it is okay to not be okay. To hear a room full of people all chant this one phrase is probably the best thing ever. It just shows me that I am not alone in whatever I am going through. This message is really something I try to bring across to all of you too. That is why I posted it and wanted to share it over here too. I might do a whole on this one day. Who knows?

This post was something slightly different but I thought it could be fun to give it a go. I hope you enjoyed it! If you did then don’t forget to give this post a like (yup that’s a feature on here) or leave a comment down below!

I will see you tomorrow!

Toodlepip!

Let’s Talk About Insecurities

Warning: this post is going to be one big mess as I have literally no idea at this point what I want to bring across to you guys. Also, my brain is a big mess at the moment so please excuse that too. But hey, leggo. Let’s talk about insecurities.

Insecurities start with pressure. You put pressure on yourself to be the best person you can be. I think that is what we all want; to be the best person possible. But we cannot always be the best person. Why can we not be that? Why is it that sometimes we cannot be the person we want to be. This is where insecurity starts. This is where that little voice inside your head starts telling you you’re not good enough.

Something I discovered lately is that I want to create. I love to create. It gives me a sense of purpose. It gives me motivation to live on. However, as much as I love creating, it also makes me very insecure. I put pressure on myself to create the best things possible. But I cannot always create the best things possible. Even writing this post right now, makes me insecure. Just a second ago I sat back in my chair and looked at my computer screen and for a split second I thought: ”why do I even bother? It’s not going to be the best I can. I should just delete this all and go back to laying in my bed.” And I think that is the main question here: should I continue to create even if it is not going to be a great creation. The bright side of my mind is shouting ‘yes!’ right now. But why? It gives me joy sometimes, but also so many insecurities.

These insecurities make me sad. Right now I am typing this while wiping away a tear. Why? I don’t know. I do not know why I am crying. Perhaps creating this post, the fact that I talk about this topic and think about this topic reminds me of the fact that sometimes, I am a very unhappy person. That feeling of unhappiness that I am currently feeling, scares me and makes me even more insecure about what I create, ultimately making me even more sad. And like that, it is an unending circle. If I stop creating now, I won’t feel that unhappy feeling and I won’t feel so insecure and scared anymore, but without creating I will never find joy. There is a difference between happiness and joy, you know? Let me explain.

Happiness is the state of being happy. You can feel happy when you are laughing with a friend. You can feel happy at a concert of your favourite band. You can be depressed and still feel happiness. You can be suicidal and still feel happiness. Joy, on the other hand, is not as specific. It is not one moment that gives you a feeling of joy. It is simply being content with the way your life is. I think that is what joy really is. You are not in control of your happiness. People can take it away from you. Your mind can take it away from you. However, we can be in control of our own personal joy.

By creating, I will not find happiness. In fact; sometimes I am so insecure about what I create, I will find the most unhappy feeling there is. However, creating, as far as I know now, is the only thing that can bring me joy. Perhaps we all just have to push through those insecurities, push through the fear of being unhappy, in order to be able to find joy.

‘Don’t let the fear of unhappiness stop you from doing what it is that brings you joy. Don’t be afraid to push through insecurities and unhappiness to find joy.’ 

That being said; what is it that one can do to stop feeling so insecure? This is a rather difficult question to answer. However, I think I have found the answer. Someone helped me find it actually. So if you have recognized anything that I have written in this post, it’s because I was inspired by someone else. Almost all I know, comes from that one person. Back to the question; what can I do to stop being insecure about what I create? First of all: Stop feeling like you need to be a teenage prodigy. Hardly anyone is. Hard work and practise is key. Pretend you’re confident until you are. It’s hard, I know, but it seems to work. Apparantly, your mentality will change.

”A year ago I’d be saying that this drawing is really shitty compared to what other people can do. Today I’m saying, I’m a damn good artist and I’m going to keep practicing and keep getting better.”  – Tyler Joseph

I don’t really know what else I can say. I think it is safe for me to say that at the beginning of this post I was crying and I was insecure and I was feeling very down about myself and my ability to create. However, right now, I pushed through those insecurities, I pushed through the tears and unhappiness, and I created. Perhaps this is not my best post. Perhaps this is not the best post out there, but at least I created something.

Also, I hope you guys appreciate my honesty. I got a comment a few days ago that really touched me. The person told me that they liked my honesty. That person told me to stay strong and keep going. I think that is the main thing I want to do with my blog. I want to be honest about who I am and who I want to be, but mostly; I want to be honest about how I feel and what is on my mind. Not only does it help me, but I really hope it might help some of you too. By writing all of this and by being open and honest, I want to tell you all that it’s okay to be broken. It’s okay if you do not know what to do or what to think. You are not alone. I’m there too and all we can do is just keep going and keep trying and keep chasing joy.

I will see you tomorrow. Thank you if you have read up until here. It means the absolute world to me.

Toodlepip. xxx